5.25.2011

phone-tographs - may 25


i take so many pictures with my phone. like, too many. it's ridiculous. 

and what happens to them? maybe i'll send them to facebook. sometimes not. i decided to start posting my phone-tographs here on my blog. these are the silly little moments of day-to-day life that i obviously felt were worth capturing, so why not save them? at least here, they'll be safe and sound and we can always look back at them and get a good giggle.

wyatt and his peep-toe sandals.

here's the mister getting comfy in his bizarre brazier that he rocked at relay for life. i think he really did like it.

my sweet friend, stephanie, treated me to a belated birthday pedicure. not sure what possessed me to choose neon yellow for the color, but whatev. my toes are calling for more sunshine!

here's isaiah at his most recent jiu-jitsu tournament. he's got his game face on, peeps. don't mess with *the beast* when he's in the zone.

liam wasn't sure where to dispose of his fruit snacks wrapper so he decided to hold onto it in his mouth and deal with it when he woke up from his nap. thanks for not littering in the car, little buddy. 

i think this photo of the mister and his brother was taken by isaiah. my bil, mike, lives in hawaii and was home for a short visit last weekend. the boys are always happy to get some qt with their uncle.

professional rainbow-chasers is what we are. we chased this rainbow for at least 20 miles and finally concluded that the car in front of us was carrying the pot of gold. full speed ahead, dad! don't let them get away!

oh, lookie here. could this be true? i had a quiet moment to put my feet up? nevermind that i was in the dentist chair at a pre-extraction appointment. it was a moment of quiet and i soaked it all up!

sweet little wyatt fell asleep in his exersaucer. i've always loved it when my babies did this. and i still do. it just melts my heart. i wish i could just fall asleep anywhere and anytime i felt tired. could you imagine?! running on the treadmill at the gym and i just fall over and sleep. wow.

liam rockin' his stunna shades. or i guess they're shutter shades? whatever. he's adorable.

these are the little moments that fill my days. i hope you enjoyed! 

'til next time...happy hump day!

5.24.2011

heaven on earth

if such a place exists, liam has found it. this play structure is his own little piece of heaven on earth.

5.23.2011

freakin' food allergies

since liam was diagnosed with asd back in september of last year, it has been constant learning, reading, researching...figuring out what we can do to be the best advocate for liam as possible. one of the books i read was Healing the New Childhood Epidemics: Autism, ADHD, Asthma, and Allergies by Kenneth Bock. and i also read Mother Warriors by Jenny McCarthy. kenneth bock's book described various treatments that could "heal" autism and jenny mccarthy's book was full of testimonials from families whose children with asd underwent these treatments and were "cured" with diet changes, supplements, and other biomedical treatments. the underlying belief is that there in an undeniable connection between the body's gastrointestinal system and neurological function; if the gut is not healthy, the brain cannot function well either.

this type of integrative biomedical treatment for autism is a practice that is not wholly supported by the conventional medical community. when i asked our pediatrician what we could do biomedically to help liam, he said there was nothing. he said that the only thing that would help him was intensive behavioral therapy (which we are also undergoing), as autism is a mental/behavioral disorder and not a medical problem. with that being said...it is not covered by insurance...and it is expensive.

i danced around it all for a while. i kept reading. i kept researching. and then i danced around it some more. i found a local defeat autism now! (DAN!) doctor that was referenced in kenneth bock's book. i explored her website....every day. i would throw bits and pieces of this information in throughout conversations with shawn. i knew it would be difficult to get him on board because of how expensive it would be.

then, one day, i got fed up. liam had been having gastrointestinal issues for a long time, even from before he was diagnosed with asd. when i talked to his pediatrician about it, he said "keep a food log." i had been doing that and learned nothing. i asked about it again and he said, "well, liam's growing well so there is nothing that leads me to believe there's anything harmful happening to his body." umm...yeah, ok.

within three weeks, i convinced shawn that we needed to see the dan! doctor and had our first appointment. they drew his blood to run a comprehensive allergy screen, chem panel and comprehensive blood test. we also submitted a stool sample for a comprehensive stool analysis. and then we waited....and waited...and waited.

fast forward 6 weeks, and we finally got the results. some weren't surprising...and some were. i'm thankful that all of his blood work and chem panel results came out normal.

allergy screen results
  • liam showed an allergy to almond. what what in the what? this boy drinks almond milk. not a whole lot, maybe 2 or 3 sippy cups a day, so it couldn't be a false response due to  overconsumption. looks like we're switching to coconut milk or rice milk.
  • he showed a true and very high allergic reaction to casein, yogurt, cow's milk and all cheeses, including cottage cheese. his reaction was so high that the doctor called it "poisonous" toward his little tummy. we're "lucky" in the sense that it wouldn't be deadly if he ingested any on accident, but it does have a significantly harmful and painful effect on his gi system.
  • he also showed a true and very high allergic reaction to gluten, wheat, and flax. just when i started to think that we might be able to ditch the gfcf diet...well, i was just kidding. looks like whole foods will be seeing shawn's whole paycheck.
  • he also had an allergy to soy. this doesn't surprise me since most kids that are allergic cow's milk tend to be allergic to soy, also. so, let's make that gfcfsf. fabulous.
stool analysis results
the results indicated a small presence of yeast and higher-than-normal levels of "bad bacteria". he also has a low presence of "good bacteria" that is essential for proper digestion. he also has inflammation in his gut, which is what has been causing his abdominal pain. 

what now
obviously, we'll be sticking with the gfcfsf diet. he's also starting on some ultra potent probiotics formulated especially for kids with autism, to help replace the good bacteria and hopefully displace the bad stuff. this should also help reduce the inflammation and pain in his gut. he'll be taking calcium, vitamin d and magnesium supplements to replace what he should be getting from cow's milk. and he's also started on a gfcfsf multi-vitamin. you can imagine the cocktail i put together for him every morning and night. thankfully, everything mixes into his beloved apple juice, so he has no idea.

also very thankful that popcorn is gfcfsf because this boy eats it like it's going out of style.



5.19.2011

embrace the camera - may 19




this past weekend, we participated in our local relay for life event benefiting the american cancer society.  actually, it has been a long time coming, since our team started collecting donations and hosting fundraisers as early as november of last year. 

i was honored to be a part of Team MargaRELAYville, a group of dedicated women with one goal in mind and heart: to raise money for the american cancer society in hopes of seeing a cure in our lifetime. many of my team members, including myself, have lost a mother or father to cancer, and we don't want our own children to ever have to feel the devastation and hurt that it brought us. 

through everyone's hard work and dedication and the support of our wonderful family and friends, Team MargaRELAYville finished the event at 2nd place in online donations and 3rd place overall for the entire event! we also won the team trailblazer award and came in 2nd place for spirit points. it would be a total understatement to say that WE ROCKED IT! and we are gonna kick cancer's ass.


so we walk...and walk...and walk.
this year, the lap theme that my little family walked for was called "bizarre braziers" for raising awareness in breast cancer. everyone walking during that theme was encouraged to decorate a bra and wear it outside their clothing. and that i did...for myself and shawn.


shawn walked the track and seems to be embracing his bosom well.

today's embrace is being hosted over at buggie & jellybean because emily is one super sick prego lady! i hope she feels better really quickly!

happy thursday to all!